Are they twins?

It's interesting how we as humans are so fascinated by twins and more. Until we had these two boys, I was always asking others if their children were twins and how did they get along, etc.
I think it's funny that I still did this even though I had worked and roomed with identical twins in college. Multiples are definitely a fascinating phenomenon to the human psyche.

I had always wanted twins, thinking that it would be the fastest way to have the twelve kiddles I always wanted. I knew I never wanted triplets or quads because my poor under 5 foot body frame would never be able to handle it. As it is, I never had to bore any child through this body. And I still got twin-like kiddles. Now that's a miracle!!

It never fails when we go out with the boys, whether as a little family of four or just me and the boys, the question always gets asked, 'Are they twins?'. Most folks get the look of deer in headlights when we say they are just shy of a month apart. Others are still not sure if they heard correct and ask for correction, and others go on as if it were a normal situation. With the latter folks, we just chuckle inside and move right along.

I think the greatest thing about having others ask us about the twinship of the boys is that I (most often) get to hear some amazing stories of those who were adopted or gave up their own child or had them taken away from them. Otherwise I would never had met these folks and learned something new about my greater world. Also, it definitely has been a conversation opener of my being an adoptee.

So, if M no longer is with us, we will no longer have the twins question being asked and that will just add another dimension to our loss of him in our lives.

But I know the final answer has yet to be answered and so I (we) continue to enjoy, spoil and embrace our time and lives with M.

So my time with twins may possibly be short lived but I must say, I will have enjoyed it immensely while it have lasted.